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Hi there! I was so distracted last year that I forgot to post my blog birthday on time and was months late. This year, I wanted to make sure I remembered, and so put a reminder on my calendar.

Every year I indulge myself by posting on my blog birthday – it’s a way to mark time passing, and also, to be honest, I then get a freebie from thinking about what to post about that week (you know it’s hard sometimes…especially after eleven years…!!).

I don’t have much to say. To be honest, if I’m writing from the heart, well my heart is filled with quite a lot of pain and fear right. I know a lot of people are donating to Ukraine and sending their love. But also very important – even though it may be inconvenient or painful for us – is to keep thinking about it and keeping this invasion at the top of our heads. To keep abreast of developments, to put pressure on companies, to be OK to pay a few dollars more at the pump. To support nuclear power. My final thought on this is a request to please click on a link, to watch a short video from the NYT showing the moment fleeing civilians are struck by a Russian attack. What absolutely senseless loss. And what incredible bravery from those who run over to help right after, and to the photographer and journalist who put their lives on the line to document the truth.

Darn. I really didn’t want to get so much into my feelings about this right now. But it’s my blog birthday, so I can write about what I want today. Thank you all very much for reading all of these years, and for being with me on this journey.

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14 Comments

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    Elisa
    March 7, 2022 at 9:31 am

    Happy anniversary, and so true—what a senseless, evil destruction of good, peaceful people.

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    Anonymous
    March 7, 2022 at 1:20 pm

    Happy Anniversary and thank you blogging! I look forward to the light hearted content and the sincere and deep thoughts every Monday and Friday.

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    Revanche @ A Gai Shan Life
    March 7, 2022 at 2:13 pm

    Happy anniversary, been good knowing you these many years!

    My heart is very heavy too. I have been thinking a lot about the support we can offer the people of Ukraine, and the many other people suffering right now (Uyghur people, the Rohingya people fleeing Myanmar now, the Afghans since the US pulled out), and what we can do to help in any meaningful way.

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    Sharon
    March 7, 2022 at 2:45 pm

    Happy Anniversary…11 years is quite the accomplishment.

    I join with you in your despair. I have been making donations to several organizations that I know are doing the good work. But…I am just at a loss as to where this leads Ukraine in the future, along with the Russian people who are at odds with Putin. Once again, my eyes fill with tears multiple times every day thinking about it.

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    Haiku
    March 7, 2022 at 5:18 pm

    Happy anniversary and kudos on a great post. That’s exactly how I feel, Had such a great day at work and then had lovely dinner with my family, snuggled with my dogs and them bam, immediately flashed back to the photo of those bodies. Saw the news of Shell still buying Russian oil but promising to donate to charity as if that made any difference. And it gave me hope – wars arent isolated events anymore. Russia has more brute force but we have some power. We can vote with our dollars. We shall win. Its a small solace when seeing people killed but its a big step. In a right direction. xo

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    Helen
    March 7, 2022 at 6:17 pm

    Happy anniversary! Thanks for writing this blog, I really do read all the articles you suggest and look forward to your mini book reviews. Thank you for all your hard work for the past 11 year!!

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    Anna
    March 7, 2022 at 6:31 pm

    Happy anniversary!

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    Nvie
    March 8, 2022 at 1:57 am

    Happy Anniversary. Feather Factor is one of the very few surviving blogs around. Cheers to many more years of blogging and a better world.

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    Elaine
    March 8, 2022 at 8:33 am

    Happy blogaversary! And agree, it is very important to bear witness to the atrocities no matter how uncomfortable. It is the absolute least we can do.

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    S in the US
    March 8, 2022 at 12:22 pm

    Happy Blog Anniversary! I love the blog and feel I’ve been following it since the beginning. A welcome distraction from everything else in the world.

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    Teresa
    March 9, 2022 at 8:00 am

    Happy anniversary! Thank you for always speaking from your heart

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    Lilian
    March 10, 2022 at 6:29 am

    Happy Anniversary! Your blog is the right mix of everything – literally EVERYTHING going on sprinkled in! Long may you scribe 🙂
    And yes, the hardships Ukraine is enduring right now make everything else puny and trifling.

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    wet.ink.sigs
    March 10, 2022 at 8:41 pm

    Happy anniversary! I’ve been reading you for probably nearly 11 years now, and am so glad that this blog continues in much the same format as it always has.

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    Yumi
    March 10, 2022 at 8:50 pm

    Happy Anniversary Kat! I can’t believe it’s been eleven years – I don’t feel like that much time has passed since I first discovered your blog and yet you’ve transitioned from MBA student to corporate warrior to fearless mother and renowned author.

    Thinking about the current state of the world, I can’t help but be reminded of how fragile and transient peace really is. Someone once told me that the very nature of living is to be one step from tragedy and that we only cling to the illusion of stability. These last few years remind me just how true this is.

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