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My Everyday Necklace

I’ve been meaning to do a few posts on jewelry – today I thought I would share a piece that I wear every single day. It’s a single Van Cleef Vintage Alhambra pendant, yellow gold with diamonds. 

To be honest, this necklace was definitely not on my radar before. My personal taste for some time has been longer necklaces. I just like the way they look, and plus (it sounds a little stupid writing it out) I like being able to just put them on/take them off over my head without unclasping. I had a few favorites but after kids with all of their propensity to grab and yank I had put most of them away and hadn’t regularly worn a necklace for some time.

It was my mom who suggested it, to match a pair of earrings, and then I tried it on, and really liked it! 

The necklace is originally 16 inches, with a jump ring at 14 inches – I had it lengthened to 18 inches when it was purchased, so the jump ring would now be at 16 inches, though I always wear it at 18. I can’t wear shorter necklaces…I like the way they look but I always feel like they’re choking me. Van Cleef will lengthen two inches for free by the way, just ask for it at the time of purchase.

I wear this necklace all the time…when I sleep, when I shower, etc. I haven’t taken it off for over a year. I know that this is supposedly bad…? I was told to take off my jewelry at night to save on wear and tear. But my necklace seems okay so far, and I like the diamonds versus one of the other stones like onyx, mother of pearl, for this reason, so I can shower and get it dirty and not have to worry about the stones. Also, I cannot sleep in any other jewelry – I’m not someone who can sleep with a bracelet on, for example, which is why I’ve never been able to do the classic Cartier Love for long and don’t get me started on earrings, sometimes I’ll fall asleep with them still in and then wake up with a start an hour later that something is Very. Wrong. But this necklace, no problems. It is always with me and so it’s cost per wear is really great and plus it makes me think of my mom!

There’s been quite a few good deals on Van Cleef on resale sites lately (I myself have been eyeing this Lucky bracelet). However, Van Cleef itself has had a few price decreases, so check retail before you buy resale..also, when you buy direct, you can get some perks like the chain lengthening, etc. There’s also been some superfakes, so beware.

What is your everyday necklace? Do you sleep in any of your jewelry pieces?

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22 Comments

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    Arabella Williams
    February 11, 2019 at 8:47 am

    Ooh, I adore this necklace!

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    Amy
    February 11, 2019 at 9:33 am

    That is a stunning necklace! It’s funny you posted this. My husband is not a huge fan of most high end jewelry. Anything that “everyone” has (which is how he perceives the Cartier Love) is a total turn-off to him. I see plenty of Van Cleef living in Orange County, but he was unaware of it.
    We were just on a trip together in Aspen, and found our way into the lovely little Van Cleef store there. He was blown away by how gorgeous the pieces were. I think he has found his brand….and I’m not complaining!

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    Michelle
    February 11, 2019 at 10:20 am

    Great choice!

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    Jane
    February 11, 2019 at 10:24 am

    Your necklace is so beautiful! I wear different jewelry all the time — and take all of it off every day. I can’t sleep in anything. My go to necklace these days is my VCA magic al hambra. I wear it long or doubled and I love it. I also have a lucky bracelet and I love it so much. I think you should get the one you posted! It makes me so happy to wear — both because of its look but also because of sentimental reasons.

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    Liz
    February 11, 2019 at 10:44 am

    Liz | wannabeliz
    The necklace is beautiful! I agree with you on the length . 18 in is the shortest I go. I prefer 20-22 in. Will you please post a photo of the matching earrings? I’ve been wanting a necklace. Unfortunately, all the ones I like clash with my earrings. I can sleep wearing earrings.

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      Katherine
      February 13, 2019 at 9:07 am

      I’ll try to post a photo later! But they are the matching Alhambra earrings!

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    Ahyoung
    February 11, 2019 at 10:49 am

    I had my eye on this necklace in rose gold for some time! It’s beautiful on you. I wear my Cartier trinity necklace 24/7. It’s so comfortable and hassle free. Love it. Hoping to add Tiffany dbty necklace some time soon.

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    Anonymous
    February 11, 2019 at 10:56 am

    I remember was it a few years ago that VCA did price decreases for a couple of years?! Do you know why VCA did that? If you hear anything about them dropping their prices in North America, please let us know! I know that’s wishful thinking on my part lol. TY very much and beautiful necklace!

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    bisbee
    February 11, 2019 at 11:20 am

    Beautiful! I don’t sleep with any jewelry on, except a necklace. I used to sleep in earrings…but I sleep on my left side, and the hole in my left ear lobe is very stretched out…of course, that is due to age as well. But…don’t sleep in earrings!

    The necklace I’ve been wearing is an LV silver tiny padlock on a chain…it was a charity purchase about 2 years ago. It goes with everything.

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    sydnee
    February 11, 2019 at 11:33 am

    Love the VCA piece! I’m lazy with my necklaces as well and prefer to keep them on thru showers, the pool, exercise (sweat), etc.

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    Mod
    February 11, 2019 at 4:04 pm

    It’s beautiful!!! I have the single pendant in turquoise and it is so precious to me. I don’t wear deep low cut shirts (I’m self conscious that I have a “fleshy” wide chest) and the pendant is always perfect (I had mine extended as well). I’ve always admired the all metal and the diamond ones too but told myself I didn’t need another one… you’re testing me with this post though!

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    Abby
    February 11, 2019 at 4:40 pm

    It is ironic that you posted this today, I have been putting off purchasing the pure Alhambra Mother of pearl earrings and necklace, its a belated 40th birthday gift to myself. I called the store today but my SA was out .. and now am debating whether to buy a kelly/constance instead. Which would you choose? I think i have made up my mind but would like your opinion.

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      Katherine
      February 12, 2019 at 10:21 am

      For a birthday, jewelry!

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        Anonymous
        February 13, 2019 at 4:13 pm

        my thoughts exactly, thank you!

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    Kerrie-Lee
    February 11, 2019 at 11:18 pm

    I love this necklace! What size is it? The standard or the sweet? I would love one in Rose Gold! BTW I read your posts all the time and love your book recommendations greatly!

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      Katherine
      February 12, 2019 at 10:22 am

      the regular Vintage size!

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    Philip
    February 11, 2019 at 11:58 pm

    Beautiful necklace! I gave my mom the same exact one last mother’s day 🙂 Thank goodness for duty free! Haha.

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    Allison
    February 12, 2019 at 2:25 pm

    I only wear my (very low-key) wedding band everyday including when I sleep. When I get given a piece of jewelry, I always try to see if I can keep it on all the time but struggle to after the novelty wears off, haha!

    I also just want to say how much I appreciate and look forward to your posts. Your blog is one of the lasts I still subscribe to that maintains authenticity, stays informative and is genuinely relatable. I also appreciate the lack of mass rewardstyle links (sale PSAs aside, those are always helpful!) and distracting magazine-style layouts (meant as the highest compliment)!

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      Katherine
      February 13, 2019 at 9:08 am

      Thank you! The magazine layouts confuse me too, haha, though I think they are pretty!

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    S in HK
    February 13, 2019 at 6:27 am

    Ooh I love that necklace on you, especially in yellow gold! And your mom has excellent taste 🙂

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    Bee
    February 15, 2019 at 9:35 am

    Beautiful necklace! I have the single motif vintage YG MOP one and used to wear it every day, but with a baby who yanks on everything I was worried about how delicate the chain was so it only gets worn on kid free days now 🙁
    For my next milestone birthday I’m debating between the 5 motif bracelet and 10 motif necklace – thoughts?!
    I sleep in my cartier love bracelet and rings (e-ring, wedding band, and right hand stacking bands) and it’s never bothered me, but I think a necklace would actually! Everyone is different.

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